Thanks....as most of you know, I always try to lead with the truth and an open heart. I believed that honesty was best and we're planning future things, such as me flying to San Antonio (while he's there for Christmas) for a Spurs game.....I couldn't see not being up front about being bipolarbearian. It's just not in me to not inform...we are getting too close to have that kind of secret. I'll let you in on a little secret...I'm older than his mother. I was three when she was born. Am I nervous??????????