My partner drinks about every weekend and a couple times out of the week. The weekend is when he drinks the most. Weekdays it might be a small amount or a wine. But wheb he drinks he tends to do stupid things or text people and say thing he shouldn't. He knows I stress about him drinking. I try to stop him but I sorta do it in a demandibg way and he tells me that won't help I need to help him by being kind. I have tried a couple of time to be kind but he won't stop. He claims that he started drinking when he broke up with his bf about three years ago the were together for about 4 years and I understand that but another reason he saids he drinks is because he says I have an attitude problem. I have tried to change it numerous times before. It won't go away its like its here to hunt me for life. So everytime he drinks I stress about it and now I haven't told him but I get a sharp pain in my heart whenever I stress. I'm just wondering what I should do?