Thanks guys

I have calmed down somewhat now but feel so upset. I am going to leave it for today and drag him to the doctors tomorrow kicking and screaming if I have to. I really understand what he is going through but I'm not willing to put up with his crap if he isnt willing to do something about it. He is aware of his current mental staus but seems to be wallowing in self pity. I too cant work at the moment so I really do understand but he is acting like its my fault.

Sorry to go on and thank you for your support!