Perhaps then - it is time for your husband to pay him a visit, and explain it to him clearly.

I once went thru something like that. My wife had a friend that was single and she had started dating this guy that was controlling and abusive.

He made the mistake of threatening my wife because she had told her friend to get out of the relationship. Once told, I simply had a little talk with that very bad and big man. Left with a limp and a bruised wrist. I am sure he understood very clearly as to what would happen to him should he ever harm my wife. To this day, when he see's me pull up where he's at - he is suddenly ... GONE!

I'm still keeping you in my thoughts and hope you stay safe! Without doubt - you're a nice and caring person and you don't deserve whats happening to you at present.

Your friend Sam

"You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."