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Originally Posted by jazzy123456
idk---its probably--has a lot to do with identity--i breifly discussed it. like...if someone had a blueprint...theyd use it to build a building..well, i guess a template is that "layout" that you'd use to form or create your sexuality and i guess that can be formed at an early age, especially if u were abused. or by what you find desirable like your fantasys, fetishes, sexual positions, preferred foreplay. idk, really.
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That all makes sense Jazzy. My T said something similar to me once.  I guess the question I then how can I get rid of the blue print? I don't feel comfortable having my blue print based on being SA as a young child.  Anyone with thougths on that?
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