I dont' recognise that sort of mirroring, T doesn't do that with me..think I'd slap her upside the head if she did lol!...I thought mirroring was just about how a baby looks into their mothers eyes and sees her love for the baby reflected back with no personal agenda etc, wouldnt mirroring as described in some of these posts be about a personal agenda? Contrived? I look at T occassionally and I see my own self love reflecting back from her, no more than that, no "simon said" games, just that...my own hidden self love coming through her eyes..