That's not true. I'm not powerful at all. If I were to go away, a lot of things would be better for my family. They would "function" much better without me there. (They just seem rather attached to me, for no particular reason. ) I'm second oldest, but the oldest girl. My brother is 14 and isn't that mature...He thinks he is, and that he should always be in charge if neither of the parents are here, but he never does anything but yells and sends people to their rooms. (And he cries a lot in front of people....I cry too, but at least I have the sense to not do it in front of my dad! )

Yes, FoolZero, that is what I'm saying. I don't think anyone wants me to be always to blame, I think that's just the way it is.

Yes, I have. It's rather easy. I go onto my cloud. Wouldn't you?