No, it definately wasn't my husband. He has his own computer. Everytime (just a few) times I have tried the sex talk with her, she gets upset and doesn't want to hear about it. Not upset, like in tears, but like she already knows, or sh'e just embarassed or acts like she doesn't want to know.
I never was made to feel comfortable with sex when I was growing up. My mom made it sound like masturbation was gross, so to this day, I am uncomfortable with sex and can't enjoy it to the extent I would like. I usually don't orgasm, and due to meds, I have no sexual desire.
I think i will do some bonding with my stepdaughter this weekend when my hubby goes out of town. Then I will try to explain some things with her, after I get her feeling comfortable with me.