Yeah, gotta be strong. He seems to be here during all the important moments like when the wifi got here to get me on the internet, when a friend came by with a Hanauaka gift, when I am about to get in the shower. Guy doesn't want to go out of his comfort zone to make new friends. Adult protective services couldn't do anything for him just hanging around because they never catch them at it. Last night I was watching tv and he's standing outside talking to my cat. It's just really creepy. But I guess I just have to hurt his feelings as he says to get him to go away. And if you ever just let him stand there and talk, he will bring up the most morbid topics like why don't people eat bugs, or how he married his hs sweetheart (this was over 40 years ago) or how he sleeps in his pj's. Last week he had to the nerve to tell me I attract him sexually and I just said you know I'm gay. Then he wanted to know "what we do in bed". It just makes me sick, but if I have to hurt his feelings or take my space, I have no qualms anymore. Sometimes you just have to have those boundaries.

Lesson learned, when you get to be an old fart, make sure you have lots of friends so you don't bug them all...that and don't mix liquor with stroke and psych meds because you will go around bugging people.