Just to let you know, I may not always be on the forums (BF thinks I am, but really, I'm not! Lol). But whether here literally, or not, whether words fail, or not, all I can see and feel is holding the person with complete empathy. I know how taboo it feels. Talking about these things does not trigger me, though it is as real (if not more real) to me than "real" life. That probably doesn't make any sense, but there you have it.

Soooo, long and short, talking about sui does not trigger me. Wish it could be talked about more freely, though because it is so triggering for others, understand the limitations.

(Also, thank you for bringing this up suga, it's given me one of those moments of complete revelation... Wow. )