GEEEEZ!
I have an hour and thirty minute session next week---an hour of it is supposed to be spent on my own sexual issues, so something like what I just wrote may come up and if it does I'll be sure to offer some feedback...
as of now though, I'm unsure of how you would make changes.
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A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.
Maya Angelou.
so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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