Well i'll PM you some info after i get it suga, and i think your right about it not being able to be stumbles apon...i mean if it's invite only then if you do see someone you think might be interested you could invite them, and they can choose as to weather they want to be there or not right?The invite only groups are not seen by others i'm in such a group right now people can't see it on the index as it is only accessible by those who have been invited.As for taking burden thats why i suddgested posting some crisis help line information at the top, i think if we can't deal with it really, we can refure to the hot lines for professional help.