Kathy, all I can tell you is I had a very hard time talking to my therapist when i first started therapy. I don't think it was a waste of time because as time passed I came to trust her. Obviously trust has been a major issue in my life. The only reason I tell you this is because at no time did my therapist contemplate dumping me. I know because I finally asked her as I had the same fears you speak of.

Everyone progresses at their own rate and a good therapist helps develop the realtionship to offer the best service they can. It is hard work and to recieve the full benefits you need to put your utmost to the tasks at hand.

Since this seems to be a major question in your mind I suggest that you bring it up when you meet him. Being honest is an important part of the client/therapist relationship. I think it is a fair question and one you deserve an answer to. Please relieve your fears upfront so you can concentrate on your healing process.

From someone who has struggled with communicating in therapy please be assured that I am still progressing at my rate. My only experience is in private practice and I can not speak for the other options available. Good luck and keep us posted how it goes.