Kvinn, in a perfect world, yes, things would work the way you want them to. On the previous thread, there was a gross lack of respect on two sides. It's fine to be angry, but it's not fine to censor, judge someone or to call names. They may not be children but they were acting like it.
However, I do completely understand how you feel. I've been in your shoes. Please don't take this personally.

"For unto us a Son is given..."
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.