I say YES!!! The only *true* love is freely given. If it has to be "earned", then it is not love. Love is when you can love someone even if they did the worst things to you....

And, FrustW/Mm14, you don't ever *have* to love anyone. If you don't love her, it's ok. But just look inside yourself- if this is just a temporary thing, where you're upset with her, and she is upset with you, then you probably still love her, and her you. Sometimes love is just hard to see because it is buried under piles of hurt. On the other hand, sometimes it is simply not there.
I would say that if you keep forgiving her, then you probably still love her. However, I'm just a dumb kid, so my advice probably isn't very sound.

Still, . I hope that you get through this difficult time soon!!!!!