u know whats weird? your friend feels bad for the drunken night stands so it causes her to drink and do it all over again? seems defeating to me...?? maybe if she didnt drink she would not have sex so often and regret. just a thought. its hard believe me.. but to have self respect you have to not to certian things. ya know, i dont know her issue, sounds like something i read the other day named borderline disorder, where people do things like drink and or have sex to feel i dont know what they feel but they want to feel something, fill a void kindof thing?? i think the word was unstable, they are never balaneced, why i think its called borderline... i cant remember. but she sounds like that to me... let her know she needs to treat herself with respect and then she wont do those things because she will like herself and im going on and on and on so im i going to stop. this probabbly didnt help but yeah....

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