You ask about what I want, that I don't state my wants. I think that this might be what my wife calls unemotional. I don't need a lot. I have my things that I like and do but those all come after my wife and kids. I leave the house once a week for a couple of hours off racquetball but only after the kids are going down to sleep. I really do enjoy spending time with them. I wish that my wife could get more enjoyment out of the simpler things in life, but I think that I was attracted to her because she wanted more. She is a vibrant person that leads a full life. In a perfect world we could find a balance where both of us could be influenced by each other to the mutual benefit of both of us.