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Hi - I don't see any "fixing" to this if he doesn't want therapy or counseling. You're not going to move forward with HIM. In order for you to 'go' anywhere, you're going to have to get rid of this guy. He is NOT a good role model for your child, and in fact, he's a danger to you both. One of these times, this temper of his is going to prove physical and he's going to hit you or the child. You need to get out before it's too late.
He's a walking time bomb. He WILL hit you sooner or later. It's only a matter of time. And if he refuses counseling, you have no other choice in order to keep your child safe, as well as yourself.
Get out of there! Find somewhere to go - anywhere, but get out. And don't let him know where you're going. Leave when he's at work. Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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