Gosh this is an easy one to answer:

There is nothing wrong with her - she is a victim of a perverted society that threw away the rules in the 1960's and wonders what the hell happened. She acted like a *****.(One night she went out and drank and used drugs and ended up sleeping with two men in the same night after blacking out. That became traumatic for her and she continued to go out and drink and ended up sleeping with several other men on different occasions while drunk.) The boyfriend reacted in a stereotypical way - unless he was a saint in training -he then took her rules and lived by her standards. THEN, both knowing they were both prone to infidelity they stupidly got married (Judge Judy would love this couple). THEN, after doing it ALL over again, they think having a baby will fix their problems (don't people realise what intergenerational issues are?)

Okay! lets be positive - after all they did find the Titanic - this couple need first a foremost to put the child far above their selfishness. They need to find a good marriage / couples counsellor and spend some time being honest with each other. I don't think a church affiliated counsellor will be useful at this point in time (they often seem to not understand these things in a rational way) However, later a good well balanced religious commitment may help their marriage improve if they don't end up getting divorced.

She is not mentally ill in a conventional way, she is suffering from guilt, dishonesty, resentment etc., etc. All normal results of BAD behaviour when a person steps outside her moral values, thinking because they do it on TV its okay for her too. Pills won't fix it. YOU, can be honest with her and help her and her husband to realise that was in the past and that now they can - for their child's sake - forgive and forget and move on with their lives or, end up pill junkies living lonely lives with a kid that will give them hell when s/he is in their teens.

Been there done that! Love and best wishes Jasmine