Well, yes, but be carefull of that. If she's out of line, she should be called on it. Telling us to feel sorry for some of these folks is all too often just a good way of saying we shouldn't stand up for ourselves, and that's not right either. It might help you from feeling so angry or letting it get you bitter, but she should still be told she is not behaving properly. YOU DO have a right to be angry, just becareful how you handle it. HUGGGGGGGS hon.