Thank you for sharing this! We are not mum to any children, sorry, but we do have others for whom we are responsible, and we do understand the struggle of taking care of others when it can be so challenging to take care of yourself.
We hope you will not be too scared to ask T, or anyone else, for help if you are feeling you need it. Asking for help just shows you care about how good a mum you are being. It does not reflect badly on you in any way.
We really hope you can get your triggering soothed and stop being so drained. Keeping you in our thoughts. ~Emma