Thank you for your comments guys--we got the most wonderful news right after I posted--As of Jan 1 he will be able to go back on our insurance until he turns 26! We have great coverage through my husband's union, so he should be able to get evaluated by neuro and psych both!!!! I'm so relieved about this!! Also, we actually got to bring him on home and I will be able to stay with him for as long as I need to. We did figure out that he doesn't remember as much about the episode as he thought. He got a letter that said he hadn't shown up for court, and has no memory of getting pulled over. That happened the first day of the event. The more he talked about it, the more he realized he only had blurry "snap shots" of the time. He remembers driving for a long time, but not the actual details of the trip. And he said he knows he spoke to a few people, but doesn't know what they talked about. He has never been on any drugs--doesn't even smoke cigarettes. They tested for almost everything (drugs) you could think of at the hospital--nothing came back positive. My other son--who does have some rougher friends

said he looked and acted like someone who had ingested an hallucinogen-which I hate to say he has had a little experience with. But this one has never taken anything.