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Weirdette I am so sorry to hear that you are unhappy with your appearance. I know we are all human and what one person finds attractive the next does not.
The most unattractive person I have ever met turned out to be one of the kindest, sweetest, most compassionate individuals that I've ever known. Once I got to know this person I saw him, and was shocked when an acquaintance made a negative comment about his looks. Instead of seeing the things that society would dictate "ugly" I saw his warm caring eyes and beautiful smile.
By the same token I met a woman that at first blush was breath takingly beautiful. Once I got to know her I saw the cruelty in her eyes. The sinister set of her mouth when she insulted a person right to their face but thought herself too clever to be discovered. Her eyes looked beady, her nose narrow and witchlike. Instead of appearing thin and fit she looked sickly and hard.
I hope that one day soon you find a way to be happy with who YOU are. How you feel about yourself makes a big difference in how others see you.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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