Hi Sleeps,

Well, yes, my counselor is happy to see me as many times as I can pay for it too! I think a lot of counselors are! But I guess in my case, the boundaries have been a little clearer in terms of contact - my counselor wouldn't make contact unless I initiated it. The exception would be the rare cases when he had to cancel an appointment due to illness or something, which has happened once or twice.

If you do decide to go see your T, maybe you can talk with him about some of these issues, and about feeling rejected and abandoned...it sounds like a really hard place to be in. I know there are money issues, but if you were expecting him to call or email you, and he didn't, that sounds very upsetting. I hope you can talk about your thoughts and feelings with him if you do go to see him.

Thinking of you - take good care of yourself.

Take care,
ErinBear