I married an older man (16 years older to be exact). I love him dearly and don't want to think of life without him with me. It seems that our main problem is lack of intimacy in our relationship. Not just love making either. We seem to be floating though our marriage right now and I am having a really tough time not thinking of other men. I don't want to cheat on my husband. We have been to some therapy but in our small town it has been difficult to see our therapist together due to scheduling issues with us and her. He knows that I am frustrated and seems to avoid the conversation at all costs.

suggestions?...ideas?

thanks
angie