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Old Dec 13, 2010, 06:22 AM
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Well, I have a feeling that you love her so much, that you're just going to take anything she hands out. But you're going to have to draw the line. Enough is enough because she's going to up the ante here pretty soon. She's already attacked your parental skills, and you sure sound like a good father to me. I certainly don't know what more she wants. She's just looking for excuses.

It sounds to me like she just wants you to TAKE your daughter full time, so she can go "out and play." Why not offer it?? Yes, you'll have to find a sitter for when you go to work, but I doubt your "wife" will mind. I think she just wants out anyway.

You would be smart to consult with an attorney before SHE does because she's going to try to take you to the cleaners. And women can DO that. Unless you live in California, she's liable to take half your retirement, plus most of everything else. So, I would file for a legal separation and get the property settlement put down in writing right now!!! Don't let her run up any bills for YOU to pay. Cause she WILL. Find a GOOD lawyer - one that is a holy terror in divorce cases. Women can be nasty (I'm a woman!). I don't want to see you taken for granted. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee