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Originally Posted by invisigirl
I agree. No. Both of you would have better chances at having successful relationships with other people than you would being together. It is too easy to fall back in to old habits and it may cause regression in all the progress that he seems to have made. Good friends could be managed, but I think that remarriage would likely lead to bad things and is not worth the risk.  |
Thank you for your thoughtful response. You said, "Good friends could be managed, but I think that remarriage would likely lead to bad things and is not worth the risk." That gives me lots of food for thought. Am I willing to risk all to be with him again? My family certainly doesn't want me to go back with him. I'm already torn between them and him. Even if I went back to him and we got along fine, we would be on the fringe of our family. My grown children have already told me they would always love and accept me, but they don't want to have anything to do with him--not for now anyway. So for every family event, I would attend, I would do it without him. Either way I look at my situation, I realize a sacrifice has to be made.