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Originally Posted by lynn P.
I agree with the others. That's wonderful you've forgiven him, but as Bill said why trust your life with him? How about you just be fiends. Imagine living with him and you want him to wake up but he doesn't...is he going to lose his temper? What can he give you that you don't have already have? You may find, you get along better being friends only. It's nice to have compassion but don't listen to the violins.
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Thank you for your thoughtful response. Of course living with him and having him get mad at me because I woke him up or some other trivial domestic issue that he could get angry over is certainly not something I would look forward to. And I suppose there's no guarantee that he won't lose his temper again and what he would do during times of being out of control. I have a lot to think about before I can make a good decision. As another person suggested, I need to work with a therapist or counselor before making this "life-changing" decision. I liked what you said about not listening "to the violins" lol.