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Rapunzel said:
Have you watched "Runaway Bride?" It's a great movie about not knowing who you are.

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Funny.......I have never seen the movie, but as I read this thread it is on the TV........it is me ,

unfortunately I married someone because I did not know how to say no......he is a very nice guy to be sure, but we had and still have NOTHING in common....it makes me so sad .

We have been married for 25+ years, probably because I hmmmmm......just swallow my own person....whoever that maybe, and just plod along.

I hate myself for being so indecisive, I can't decorate, can't hang pictures, can't pick out glasses, can't do anything... And when I do make a decsision I second guess everything I ever have done........ If someone want's my opinion on something "Hey do you like this picture?" I try so hard to read the other people in the room for the "right" answer...... And if I can't get a feel.....I just skillfully change the subject or better yet make a joke (if someone hasn't already) about my lack of opinions.......%#@&#!..... I sure am tired.......

Christmas is the worst...........I want everyone to be happy......I want to know that I got just the right gift for everyone........and I can't make ANY decisions...

Sorry I hijacked the thread.........but does it ever get better? I am 47 and damn I am tired and depressed........still...........sorry again