He sounds like a selfish spoiled brat IMO. When ever there is food left around, it belongs to who ever is hungry & get's to it first.....just a fact of life.

I know how me must have felt about the donut though with your doggie. I end up forgetting that I have left a bag of chips or some other food within doggie reach (I have 3 eskie dogs that live in my master bedroom with me). If I leave the bedroom to do something down stairs, I will hear thump, thump, thump & when I get back upstairs, what ever food was left is nothing but an empty bag......grrrr. Only thing is that I can't stay mad at my babies.....I yell "bad doggies" at them, but can't know which one was the guilty party anyway. When I sit back down on my bed, they all jump on top of me & we end up in a hugging doggie pile of unconditional love. Can't imagine ever staying mad at them for anything.

Seems as though your husband has some other serious things going on that are causing his anger to be triggered on something unrelated to what he's really angry about.

No husband has a right to treat his wife is such a disrespectful way. Sounds like there may be some need for marriage counselling. Not sure how long you have been married, but that kind of treatment needs to be stopped before it becomes a habit. When I was first married to my husband, he thought sarcasm & Don Rickles humor was great.....until he continued to pull it on me. I drew the line & showed him the door if he ever tried it again......he never pulled that kind of sarcasm on me again, but there were so many other things that I finally left after 33 years of tolerating his other issues. It's not right for a spouse to mentally abuse the other & there really needs to be some professional help so that it doesn't become the standard for the marriage....it's no way to live.