Me too, Daisy. Including getting married for lack of knowing how to say no. I've been married for 15 years, and my husband is a good guy too, but I wish that I had learned how to be myself, and now I want the independence that I was afraid of before and didn't know how to cope with. I don't know what my opinions are or what I like, and I'm afraid it would be wrong if I tried to say what I'm thinking. Can't identify my feelings either because I'll probably get it wrong. Maybe I'm getting a little better at it now, but it's still so, so hard.

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