what about having an individual therapy therapist not just a group therapist. I have an individual therapist and the groups I attend are just suplementing info that way Im not left hanging on anything that needs being taken care of. If money is the issue county mental health agencys go according to sliding fee scales, many community agencies do therapy for free and catholic chareties and other churches always do grief counseling for free but sometimes ask for a "donation of $1.00 to whatever you can afford.