wow. I don't know how believing in something that isn't going to happen can help. I'm not a T, so I can't see any reasoning in that at all. I am very sorry your son won't be there, that really sux, and I can't imagine what that would feel like. Especially not knowing exactly where he is and what he's doing. I would think a T would help you work thru that grief and process it, rather than ignore it.

Just my opinion though.