Timo ~
Whether you want it or not , you got our support hon. Thats what we are here for ok? Let us help you thru this. Let us be the ones that can and will listen so you dont have to go thru this alone!

Abusers are masterminds at kniving there way into our lives. THEY break us down ... so they get us where they want us. This is not your fault!!! Please dont ever think that ok? Its going to take some time to put him back out on that doorstep ok? But once it happens and you get that feeling of wanting to let him back in. Your gonna have us behind you and your gonna feel it too that you can say no to him. And your gonna know its ok even if it does break your kids hears, cause you made the right decision to protect all of you from him. Just keep your chin up there ok?

Hugz~
Bethy