The first thing was "I'm sorry" after a rupture. That went REALLY FAR in helping my trust grow.

I know he loves me, and he's told me that, and that feels good.

Once I asked him what it would be like if we had met outside of therapy, and he said "I would really really like you and want to be friends with you. And I would probably be selfish and want more of your time than I should have". It made me feel like...T really DOES like me.