T wanted to make a kind of "road map" (her words) for where we'll be going over the "next few months". She wanted to know what trauma I wanted to talk about.

this is bothering me: she asked me if I thought the CSA was worse than the SA. I don't even...I said I don't know. It's different. But as I've been thinking about it, it really bugs me. Is there even a way to quantify such things? Is there some kind of arbitrary scale and some traumas are worse than others? Doesn't it depend on the person and the circumstances and a whole host of other variables?

I'm obviously emotionally reactive right now, so maybe I'm looking at this the wrong way. I'm wondering, PC friends, how would you feel and what would you think if your T asked you that?