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We are loving at cross-purposes you guys. We are hurting those that we care about and hurting ourselves in the process. Leaving isn't the answer. The answer is in reaching out and pushing away the pain with our love and support.

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Caroline, no one is asking you to not post anymore. No one is asking you to leave. This post is here for many reasons but none of those reasons is for any of us to ingest self-blame.

The point is for us to do the apology part since we're all partly responsible for at least one other person's pain usually and then for us to get to the "i care" part. the "i care" part is the important part. that is the part that says that "i'm tired of seeing and experiencing so much pain so let's get this place back to where it was."

you skipped back to the apology part after the "i care" part. this post isn't directed towards you. You haven't caused any more or any less pain than every single one of the rest of us on here. that is because we are human and make mistakes. you don't have a monopoly on offending others or being offended. we all do both.

there is no "right place" to be... except with the people who care about you and want to see only good things happen for you in your life. i know that there are those people here for you that could make this your "right place" you just have to accept what they want to offer you, C.

no one is asking you to apologize for every problem on this site. and besides, apologies weren't the most important reason for this thread.

here's the important part:

I care about what happens to you Caroline and I care about your pain. I want to help in any way that I can because pain that is shared is pain that is halved. remember it.

(((((((((((((Caroline)))))))))))))))


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