I'm with you on this.... my T has been ill since august. I don't know when she will be back. At first it went well, but now... it's getting really dark here in northern Europe and I would very much like to talk to her again.

I did see another T though, when she called me about her leave (during holidays), she referred me to one of her partners, an elderly male. Since I was struggling with this T (her, I mean) anyway (lots of ruptures) I went to see him en actually hoped it would work out with him. But it didn't. It was just not a good match. I told him I wanted to wait til my T returned, and he agreed and discussed it with her. She will let me know when she's back in the office.

But I really don't know anything, even about her condition right now. She might call tomorrow or it could be some more months, and that's the hardest part. I don't want to try another T anymore.