Since this thread was started I asked my T about the memory thing. She said she has no idea why I don't have a memory of it and asked me if I could ask my mom about the sleepover thing. Either way shouldn't my T be helping me figure out why I don't have a memory of this? Any thoughts - T's or clients? Please Anyone have a T help them with this? Perhaps I need to be direct and say to my T: I NEED YOU TO HELP ME FIGURE THIS OUT! (so far sannah you have given me more info on the topic than my T )