I haven't quite figured out exactly what it will take to accept myself but sometimes I seem to do a decent job of it. However, other times not so much. My T and I have talked about this a bit and discussed my "perceived failures". I am completely aware that my failures are generally my perception and not actual failures at all. Some would look at what I do and see it differently which is ok. I just need to keep working on convincing myself that perfection in all things and at any cost is not necessarily success