Yeah, bpd sucks...
But WE don't! A new diagnosis is hard to live with, no matter what it is. It takes awhile to be able to even think, and there is so much to learn--in order to keep from either denying or panicking.
So support is essential, and here we are. In a couple more posts--four more, I think--you'll be able to join the chats. They are tremendously supportive.
In the meantime, there's this forum. Look at the old posts, too--and if there is one you want to respond to, do. It will rekindle the thread and it'll fly again from there.
So glad to have you here. It means we are not alone, too.