Good news :-) I sent an email asking for a reply from T and he did so :-)
I finally asked him if he was mad at me for cancelling. I just can't risk being trapped in an ice storm - that happened to me one day when I was in college and it was BAD on me. T wrote back and said he was not mad or upset with me "at all" :-)

So now I think I will be ok until I see him next monday. If we get snow next monday, I am moving back to Florida !!!!