Penguin I've many times thought the same thing. Sometimes my T tells me well your parents did to xyz so it wasn't like that all the time - then of course I tell T differently etc... I do know that my T's life however wasn't perfect so that helps. No one's life ever is no matter how privileged. Educated people with money have just as many problems as the rest of us (ok maybe not the being poor part but you get what I mean).

Sending you many safe hugs Penguin. I grew up that way too so I get it. - In the end its not about the degrees or the money it's about who you are as a person and how you treat others (IMO). Peace.