??

Could be:
"You can do this and I believe in you. I believe that you are as strong if not stronger than others I have worked with."

Could be:
"Other people can do this so why can't you?"

From hearing about your excellent T, WePow, I would bet the house it's the first one.
Blerg. I - ah - would feel confused... and probably go to the second one... and get mad.
How are you doing?
not sure if I am helping...

Elana