Moose - why is social security a joke? bipolar should qualify you, particularly if you have a difficult time getting a good med adjustment. i qualified, and i think your circumstances are more qualifying than mine. Just prepare yourself to say WHY your disability or disabilities [cite as many as you can] impede your ability to work. Then make sure this is stated on your application. If you don't have enough work history for SSDI, you can still qualify for SSI. One can be abused at ANY age, and this certainly appears to be true of you. I think your thinking on getting the children out of the house and back to hubby seems sound and a good first step. You might be able to live at the Y. Certainly, it seems you would qualify for housing assistance. Call Adult Protective Services [1-800-252-5400] and see what kind of help in getting out of your abusive situation you might qualify for. Be prepared for them to visit your home, however. Your local MHMR might have some leads. Any agency social worker should have some ideas. HUGS