my exwife called ME today and asked if i wanted to see my son before xmas, we have yet to agree a date, but the 17th, a week before xmas looks like the best bet, i didnt push and ask whether it was her desicion or my son's to call me and ask, i dont really care at the moment, any visitation is good visitation for me.

also it looks like i will be moving into my mates house in january, nothing has been finalised yet, but fingers crossed.