Hey, guy: don't take it so personally. Questions are what everybody's here for: to ask and to answer. SAWE probably just didn't phrase her post as well as she might have. Ask as many questions as you like. Start as many threads as you like. Don't get downhearted if you don't get as many responses as you might like. That's just the way things work here and everybody here has started threads that haven't been popular as well as some that have.

To answer your specific question, I used to do things like that, many years ago (MANY years ago), including but not limited to not paying my T, arriving in pajamas, being drunk, walking out halfway, etc., etc. Then there was a thirty-year hiatus and now I'm back, as serious as I can be.
I need very much to get better as fast as possible, so I cooperate as much as I can and work very seriously with my T. It sounds as if you need to evaluate what you're doing with your T and make up your own mind as to what you really want to do. If you want to get better, you have to be serious. That's it. My point of view. You do as you like. And take care!