I think trauma is trauma...big or small. I don't think processing it is much more than acknowledging it happened. Yea, I guess a lot of people feel the emotions, and feel raw, but I usually just point blank say what happened and feel nothing. A lot of T's want you to retell it until you feel it, but I haven't done that, so I am not sure how it would work. There's lots of trauma work pro's here, so I'll let them answer that. I just wanted to let you know you're not alone in the "not feeling it"