Yeah, I have also seen that side of it. I know my sister has had some troubles, too. My dad always called her a fatty cause she wasn't slim, but when it came to me he didn't care. I think she still has an eating disorder this day and she's 26. I think all the children suffer when parents are abusive, no matter who got it worse. My sister did whatever my parents wanted of her to avoid the trouble that I got when acting out. She told me recently that because of it, he has a really bad problem with being a push-over, and this is not got cause she is a teacher now and her students often don't take her seriously. Thank you for your input.