There were times when I've gotten angry and wanted to walk out...and one time that I canceled because I was just not up to facing him....and I know T pretty well - he will not chase me, he will not call, he will not email - he will let me be until I decide to reach out to him. He doesn't give in to manipulation. When I've been so upset with him, I'd need some time to gather my feelings - post on PC (hugs) - and really think it through - and then I'd address it with him and work through it. It's basically helped me learn more about healthy conflict...and conflict resolution.